When a woman gets pregnant, the couple is said to be "expecting" which is the beginning of their parenthood. From then on, the story of expectation never really ends. Be it a boy or girl, expectations of parents, then family and then society never really leaves a person. A boy is "expected" to have a good career and be the bread earner of his family whereas a girl is "expected' to get married into a nice household and take care of the house. We all have heard things, all the same lines and it rightfully angers it so much. We try so hard to break from these "expectations" and be our own person instead of just becoming a puppet in the hands of others.
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5. "Arre beta, itna job ke piche kyun bhaag rahe ho? Waise bhi shaadi ke baad pata nahi kaha settle honge and you don't even know if they will let you work or not."
Answer - Exactly, when there are so many uncertainties about marriage, I think I should at least be sure about my job and independence and marriage is supposed to be a balance of compromising on both parts.
7. "She is 27 and not married. Pakka koi chakar chal raha hai uss ladki ka."
Answer - Yes, she is involved. Involved in a cooperate job. Have you seen how mad they drive you? Anf even if I have a chakar, Apko kya? Apne karwani hai shaadi?
So to sum up, elders are not always right. The generation gap is real. Feminists are taking over and fighting for gender equality and girls should not be scared of moving away from society's expectation.
Because, APNA TIME AYEGA!
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