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Developing a relationship with a mother-in-law or a sister-in-law is whole of a process where you have to win their hearts by doing various things like house chores, making them breakfast or dinner and what not but with father-in-law, it can be all unique. Every father-in-law is usually famed for his chiller attitude and easy to let it go attitude. Their love is easy to get and also developing a bond with them is different but fun.
As a girl, I can say that I can't wait to meet my father-in-law because I know he would give me a fatherly love like my own father and there would be no mind games with him, there would be only waves of laughter and sunshine.
Father's opinions and advice's are always on the point irrespective of what kind of problem you have. They have a solution for every problem and will make sure that you come out of it unharmed. Ask for his advice on issues and in this way he would realize that you have accepted him as your own father. You make a single step and he will put his twice to give you fatherly love.
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Try to spend time with him by sitting beside him during dinner or just watch his favorite movie or TV show with him. Make him laugh and laugh with him, in this way you both will share some fun moments and bond will get better with time.
Every father has various tensions related to work or house, make him sit with you and force him to share his problems as you do with your own fathers. As I said before, your single step and he will reciprocate with thousand steps.
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As you make your own father feel special on his birthdays or anniversaries by planning surprises, in the same way, do it for him also. Plan surprises for him on his special days and he will give you the best hug as your own father gives you.
As they take care of you, it's your duty to take care of them as well. Plan a surprise fancy dinner or lunch for them, hey, how about surprising them for a one day stay in a hotel?
No parent can tolerate negative things about his child. So never discuss or gossip about your spouse to him, after all, he is a father to him also. In short, maintain the respect which he deserves.
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His laugh will not only make him improve his hemoglobin, but will make him more confortable to share his worries or happiness with you. You will get an entry to be the first one in his important person's lists because now he knows you both are friends.
Help him in his work like typing a message for him to someone or helping him with some Internet issues at home. Help him as a daughter and he will be a great dad to you.
Never be disrespectful to him only because he is not your real father. Blood can't define the deepness of relationships. Respect him and show your approval on his decisions and make him realize that he is the head of the family because he is the ONE.
Fathers-in-law are the sweetest and adorable members of the family in every house. He needs no time to accept you as his child because he never discriminates among his children. He only needs your respect and love and in return, he will give you his best love and time.
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